Thriving through transition,
living and leading with confidence

Menopause awareness workshops & coaching for leadership on confident conversations around menopause

I help organisations transform the way they support women at work through menopause awareness training and leadership coaching, creating inclusive cultures where people feel valued, perform at their best, and choose to stay.

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Hello

Welcome to my story.

After years of navigating the intricate landscapes of leadership and human resources, I embarked on a remarkable journey of my own.

At the age of 47, I found myself facing a pivotal moment in my life as I entered the realm of menopause. This profound transition prompted me to reflect on my own experiences as a woman in leadership, grappling with the unique challenges that come with balancing career aspirations and personal well-being during this stage of life.

Driven by a deep sense of purpose and a desire to empower other women, I made the bold decision to pivot my career path. Drawing upon my extensive expertise and personal journey, I founded my own training consultancy dedicated to supporting women navigating the demands of leadership, life and menopause. My approach is rooted in presence, understanding, and a genuine commitment to growth and resilience.

Shirley Macdonald, ICF Member Coach, Associate CIPD & Certified Online Learning Facilitator brings 20 years of leadership and human resources experience.

“One day when you wake up, you will find that you have become a forest. You have grown roots and found strength in them that no one thought you had.
You have become stronger and more beautiful, full of life-giving qualities. You have learned to take all the negativity around you and turn it into oxygen for easy breathing.
A host of wild creatures live inside you and you call them stories. A variety of beautiful birds rest inside your mind and you call them memories.
And you should be so proud of yourself, of how far you have come from the seeds of who you used to be”.

– Nikita Gill, Fierce Fairytales

Signature Coaching

Signature Programmes and Thinking Circles

I recognise the diversity of human experiences, valuing the unique stories, backgrounds, and aspirations that shape each individual. Through a collaborative partnership with my clients, I aim to inspire purposeful living, resilient mindsets, and a deep sense of fulfilment. Join me, where the journey of self-discovery unfolds and the pursuit of purpose becomes a shared endeavour.

3 Coaching Pillars

Navigating Change Series

Cultivating Purpose Series

Owning Wisdom Series

Included within all signature programmes:

Disclaimer:

The guidance and support provided by Pause Transform Coaching & Training Consultancy® as a life coach specialising in women during menopause is intended to complement, not replace, the advice of a licensed healthcare professional. While we offer information and strategies to help women navigate the life challenges of menopause, it is essential to consult with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your health regimen, including dietary adjustments, exercise routines, or the introduction of new supplements or medications.

Please be aware that the experiences and suggestions shared are based on personal and professional knowledge and are not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Every individual’s health needs and circumstances are unique, and it is crucial to seek personalised advice from a qualified health provider regarding any medical conditions or concerns you may have.

Client Charter

At Pause Transform Coaching®, I am committed to providing exceptional coaching services tailored to the unique needs of women navigating the demands of life and leadership amidst the changes brought on by menopause.

This client charter outlines my commitment to you:

  • Personalised Support:
    I understand that each client’s journey is unique. I will work closely with you to develop a personalised coaching plan that addresses your specific challenges, goals, and aspirations.
  • Empathetic Guidance:
    I provide a safe and supportive space where you can openly discuss your experiences, concerns, and emotions related to menopause, life or leadership.
  • Evidence-Based Strategies:
    My coaching approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I will equip you with practical strategies and tools to navigate life during menopause with confidence and enhance your leadership skills.
  • Confidentiality:
    Your privacy is paramount to me. I adhere to strict confidentiality protocols, ensuring that all information shared during coaching sessions remains confidential and secure.

Bespoke Training

Pause Transform Coaching & Training Consultancy® offers bespoke training consultancy. I have 20 years of leadership development experience across Learning & Organisational Development and Human Resources, working with senior leaders to achieve ROI and effective performance.

Executive Coaching

Empowering leaders to enhance their performance, drive innovation, and support their teams to success.

Corporate Training

Crafting bespoke training programs that enhance team dynamics, create awareness of menopause, and boost overall productivity and wellbeing.

Workshops & Seminars

Interactive sessions focused on key areas such as leadership, menopause awareness, resilience, and emotional intelligence.

My commitment to sustainability

  • Environmental sustainability
  • Diversity & inclusion
  • Client well-being
  • Sustainable business model
  • Values driven coaching and training consultancy
  • Integration of sustainability topics in leadership coaching

words of kindness

"I came to Shirley to gain direction and clarity, from the ''jumble" of life. I felt like I was languishing, I wanted to flourish but with a chronic health issue, I was struggling to move forward. Shirley's questions and unwavering curiosity, uncovered a different perspective and ultimately my mindset changed, empowering me to create the space and time to grow again. Shirley has a wonderfully warm, welcoming and calm manner and I felt very trusting of her during our sessions. Both this and her professionalism as a coach, challenging me at the right times, was a very fulfilling experience". I would heartily recommend Shirley as a coach and especially to anyone going through the menopause.” - P S Loch
Shirley had a very professional approach to our sessions by providing thorough information both before, during and after our sessions. These journal prompts and questions provided ongoing work which was actually really helpful in terms of keeping me on track and keeping me focused on my goals. I really enjoyed Shirley’s manor in relation to coaching, she was non judgmental despite my varying energy levels each session. This put me at ease and I felt Shirley really embodied the non directive approach which was refreshing and allowed me to be authentic with her, which was important given the subject matter of menopause. I would heartily recommend Shirley as a coach and especially to anyone going through the menopause.” - Rebecca Slater
“From the moment I connected online with Shirley I felt like I was in safe hands. Shirley communicates her warm nature whilst also holding a very professional space, and in doing this co-creates a very clear and boundaried coach/client relationship. At the beginning of every session, Shirley reinforces the purpose , duration and boundaries of the call so we are both very clear on the parameters of each session. Shirley maintains a calm and present manner, is non-judgemental, appears to remove her own ego from the session and in turn creates an environment where the entire focus is on her client (me). In doing this, what I really noticed was the ability and space I had to truly think, and this is very different from any other relationship I have. Shirley is very good at bringing empathy to the conversation, whilst also helping me to recognise my own strengths through her effective questioning techniques. She brings a positive, professional approach to her coaching calls and at the end of the day, she makes me feel safe, supported and more positive and able to take action by the end of each call”
- Jenny
“Shirley has coached me over five sessions on a range of different topics. She has an assured and calming presence. I have always felt at ease when speaking with her about my goals because I feel that she really listens to me in an open and non-judgemental way. I have been able to come away with a better understanding of my situation and with a sensible action plan at the end of each session. This has helped motivate me to achieve some of my goals over the past few months”
- Elizabeth
“I was shown emotional intelligence and real empathy in emotional situations. A compassionate coach, great listener, has good pace through the sessions and seamlessly challenged me. Shirley’s unique gift is her ability to match energy and pace to the client through different stages on the session. ”
- Michelle

Thought Leadership

“One day you will tell your story of how you overcame what you went through and it will be someone else’s survival guide”- Brene Brown.

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